Monday, October 06, 2008

Who ran to help me when I fell, or would some pretty story tell...

...or kiss the place to make it well? My mother
~Ann Taylor

Manic Monday...click to play.

What is one thing you admire about each of your parents?
My father grew up in utter poverty, the youngest of six, abandoned by his father at the age of 3. The lived in one-room shacks and moved often because his mother couldn't pay the rent. They had very little to eat, clothing had to be shared among the children, and they were the recipients of "charity" (Do you know how patronizing and cruel some people can be under the guise of helping you out?) from the local church. He joined the Army at 15, got his GED, served 25 years, and retired a Lieutenant Colonel. Somewhere along the line, he got a college degree, and while I was in high school, he earned a master's degree. He could have easily chosen to wallow in the craptastic hand that life dealt him, but he had a strength of character that drove him to succeed.

My mother. I've been sitting here for 10 minutes, and it's not that I can't think of something that I admire about my mother, it's that I can't single out ONE thing. They are all intertwined in that idea of "mom." She just is. My mother did all of the things she was supposed to do. She was the quintessential Army wife, the mom who was always there, a great cook, a perfect homemaker and housekeeper, and had a lot of friends. I suspect there are things she wanted to do with her life that she was never able to, but she has never complained.

Which parts of your home do you like best?
I like that it still has some of the original parts from when it was built in 1928. Glass door knobs, original windows with sashes and glass panes that are slightly warped. It makes it cool.

Which would you prefer and why? To have every stoplight turn green upon your arrival for the rest of your life or to have one week of the best sex any person ever had?
Wow, that's a tough one. I'm not a Type A driver, and almost never complain about stop lights or travel time. I wouldn't appreciate the green lights as much as another person might. But, they would always be there.

A week of mind-blowing sex. Very tempting, but what about the rest of your sex life afterward? Would it pale in comparison and leave you wanting? That could be frustrating. But, maybe you could pick up some tricks along the way :) Let's go with the sex.

*~*~*

My supervisor doesn't like me. I don't think it's a flat-out
dislike, so much as I rub her the wrong way. It happens.

Each and every time we get together to practice BP before a launch, and when I have team-taught with her, she feels the need to correct something about my form. Every. damn. time. The nit-pickiest little things. Form is something I have been complemented on by everyone else. I have spent a great deal of time working on my form. I am always receptive to feedback, however, giving me feedback in front of others while I am in the middle of teaching a track to my fellow instructors is not constructive. Especially when timed so that I miss a cue because I'm responding to the comment. She did this yesterday AGAIN. I never let on that it bothered me. I thanked her for her advice and kept going. And then I stewed on it all night.

'Cause that's what I do. I stew.

*~*~*

Entourage is back. Californication is back. Survivor is back. Lost will be back soon. The DVR is filling with happiness! It's awesome. This is the GOOD part of Autumn.

12 humored me by saying something:

Siren said...

Pushing Daisies is back, too. And my guiltiest of guilty pleasures, Dancing with the Stars. I know, I know. Moving on...

Does your supervisor correct others too? Maybe she feels like she has to correct something or she isn't doing her job. Or maybe she just thinks you are too perfect. A lot of people mistake "pride in what I do" with "I think I am better than you."

Dana said...

You have glass door knobs?? I am soooo jealous! What I would give for a home with character!

figleaf said...
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Real Live Lesbian said...

Green lights be damned. I'll take the sex as well.

Sounds like she kinda rubs you the wrong way as well.

Ahhh...my DVR is filling up too! I can't wait for LOST to return. I'm such a junkie.

figleaf said...

"A week of mind-blowing sex. Very tempting, but what about the rest of your sex life afterward? Would it pale in comparison and leave you wanting?"

Totally alert thinking, Biscuit! Because yeah, after that week then what? (Also alert thinking about maybe picking up pointers though.)

This might sound funny but I think I'd go for the green lights (even though I almost never drive.) Regular sex is already pretty nice, and in my experience "mind blowing" sex, while nice, is sort of overrated. (I mean who in his or her right mind says "oh darn it, that last orgasm sucked because it wasn't the best ever" and/or "my partner's last orgasm sucked because it wasn't her/his best ever?")

Anyway, I'd settle for the same old perfectly enjoyable sex for the rest of my life... with all the time I saved not waiting in traffic! :-)

figleaf

LauraJ said...

supervisor is probably just jealous because you're prettier and hotter than she is! HA! :D

Heff said...

Sounds like a looong winter of sitting on your ass watching TV !

I Smile 2 Much said...

I think there's a lot of truth in what lauraj said. I'd say its unnecessary for her to say anything to you in front of others or while you're teaching.

She must just be trying to come up with something (anything at all) to find remotely wrong so she feels okay about herself. Hmmm. I love how you handled it though. Classy & graceful & kept going on. You're allowed to stew--- especially because I'm guilty of doing the same thing! *smiles*

Can't wait for LOST!!! ; ) Your house sounds like it has a lot of character and style. Very cool.

Awesome answers! And Happy Monday (whatever *that* means) lol

Vixen said...

Yeah...I'll have to take the mind blowing sex for a week over green lights.

I'm excited about all the new shows too!!!!!

(Oh. And I stew too. Doh)

*muah* girlie!

for a different kind of girl said...

Today I got a little frustrated sitting at a red light waiting to turn left for, um, like three minutes. Perhaps I need to get a little sexual green light action!

I'd be very interested to know if your supervisor is hyper critical of any of the other instructors, or if it seems like you're just being singled out. The hard part is knowing what to do with that info, though. You never know if speaking to her about it would come back to bite you in the ass. Sorry you're having to deal with that.

Silicon Nitride Balls said...

I admire your parents for the way they like each other enough, after all these years, to still enjoy hanging out together. They are living proof that two people who care enough to make the effort can have a great partnership that lasts a lifetime, despite mistakes and imperfection along the way. They are good people.

I know you can't just ignore it, but that crap with the "not-so-super"visor is just one of those weird catfight issues that seem to happen w/ people who don't "get you". It seems to happen when somebody - through misunderstanding - feels threatened by you. So attractive - yet self-deprecating in a funny but confident way - you don't play the political games they expect. These fat heads can't figure out why you aren't trying to suck up to them, so they are mystified, and see it as defiance - even though you aren't defying them. Since they don't understand you - and won't bother to get to know you - they figure you must be some kind of dangerous wild card, challenging them with confident independence - and therefore you must be a threat. She is insecure, so she uses the only power she has over you in a misguided bid to try and protect herself. Screw her.

And thank you. Finding something nice to say about this far-less-than-ideal home was a nice thing to do - you made my day with your positive outlook. (But I gotta tell you - I just saw a T.V. show about a family with 13 kids (soon to be 14). I don't want to be them, but I sure admired their strength and effectiveness as parents - and our little house just doesn't seem as crowded now that I've seen that show...(!!)

Wil said...

She is definitely intimidated by you, plain as day.

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